I am the partner of a porn addicted husband. We have been married for 10 years and have two little girls. He has been addicted for about 30 years and it’s been about 7 years since I first found out about it, since then he had tried different ways to sort things out - from denial to the 12 steps, but everything led him to reincide again and again. The last time I walked into him I was ready to file for divorce and as I was trying f to keep on gaining more understanding of the situation I heard one of Craig’s podcast that really spoke to my situation, so I found more information about his program and ultimately led to me joining the partner’s program and my husband joining the intimacy disorder program. For the addiction, I have seen my husband digging much much deeper and making changes in many different aspects of his life. He feels the program spoke to his challenges from the first time he spoke with Craig - and it’s not really about the porn (though I wouldn’t divorce him for the other character flaws - ie: inability to establish goals or make long term plans or follow thru with one established). Craig is really always there as a guide and resource - super quick to respond to any sort of queries and flexible to connect with. It has not been a long while since my husband joined the program so I cannot attest to the program’s long term efficacy, but If my husband does decide to change his life, I think this is the program that would give him the tools and resources.

As for the partners program, we have quite a few weekly calls where we share with each other how we are feeling, what’s going on in our hurt worlds. We are given tools to move forward and track our own progress. It’s been a great resource too because, as partners, we tend to feel alone in our own struggle with deceit and lack of trust for the person we once decided to share our lives with. The program helps us empower ourselves and do our much needed self-care.

Highly recommend this program!

Date of experience: October 21, 2018